St. Thomas' Episcopal Church
Sunday, January 26, 2020
Bethel, Connecticut
Search this site.View the site map.
Visit us on Facebook.


First-Time Visitor FAQ

What should I wear?
Some clothes.  Really.  We're not fussy about it. 
What's the best door to use?
If you're coming to our 8 a.m. Sunday service, or if you're coming to the office, it's best to use the glass doors facing Greenwood Avenue.  If you're coming to the 10 a.m. Sunday service, you can use either the glass doors or the large red doors.  There's a handicap entrance in the rear of the church.
What are the services like?
September though June, Sunday services are at 8 a.m. and 10 a.m.  During July and August, there is just one service, at 9 a.m.
The 8 a.m. service takes place in our chapel, right across from the glass doors on Greenwood Avenue.  This service is shorter, with a smaller congregation and no singing.  The 10 a.m. service takes place in our church and includes singing by the choir and the congregation.  Sunday School meets during the 10 a.m. service.
What do you have for kids during worship?
Parents with infants and young children are invited, but not at all required, to sit in one of the family pews, which provide extra "wiggle room," rugs and children's Bibles.  The ushers are happy to provide crayons and paper  There is a nursery where parents can soothe their own children if they become unable to stay in church.  The ladies room has a changing table.  Once a month during the school year, typically on the third Sunday, children and youth help lead the 10 a.m. service, and the sermon is geared toward them.
Starting at preschool age, children leave church after the "hymn of praise" and are escorted to their church school classrooms.  They return in time for Holy Communion.  The ushers can answer any questions.
Do I have to give money?
As a guest, you're not expected to give money.  We do appreciate it if you sign our guest book
What about Holy Communion?
Holy Communion is open to all the baptized, including toddlers.  If you are unable to manage the stairs leading to the communion rail, notify an usher. The bread and wine will be brought to your pew.

Anything else I should know?
St. Thomas' has a couple of customs that might be new to you: thank-offerings and mission crosses.
Thank-offerings can be made for a birthday, an anniversary, a vacation, favorable medical test results, a safe homecoming, or any other occasion for gratitude.  If you'd like to make a thank-offering, notify the prayer leader (whom you'll recognize by the clip-board he or she is carrying) before the service starts. 
Mission crosses are a way St. Thomas' carries God's love into the community.  On your way back to your pew from the communion rail, you will pass a glass jar full of small wooden crosses.  Feel free to take one or more crosses to share with family and friends as a reminder of God's care.  Near the end of the service, the priest will bless the crosses. 
We'd be honored to have you for coffee after worship.